I specialise in helping people work through a Divorce or the end of a Relationship. Divorce Coaching has many benefits and is a viable option to help you maintain your best self through Divorce.
I can help you in the following ways
1. Reduce your Divorce costs
Most people expect that getting a divorce can be an expensive thing and whilst it does cost money, it doesn’t have to be that expensive. The reason why costs escalate is because of the emotions involved. Lawyers and solicitors are not emotionally involved in your Divorce so talking to them can seem soothing and means you may spend longer with them than necessary. As a coach I can help you focus on sorting out your emotions, plan your future and organise yourself. This will all reduce the amount of time you need to spend with a solicitor. It has been known that with right coach and solicitor, the total cost of a Divorce (including coach fees) can be as much as half as for people without a coach. If you and your partner are willing to work with a coach together, then even greater savings could be made.
2. Get better outcomes from your Divorce.
It is so sad to hear when people have just signed away everything in their divorce because they couldn’t cope with the stress at the time. They have then all lived to regret it. I will give you the confidence and support to make the process less stressful. You will learn negotiating techniques that will enable to get what you need to move forward with your life.
3. Move on quicker
It is important to remember that a Divorce is final and you really only have one shot to get it right. If you are unsatisfied with the outcome of the divorce, then the relationship will be harder to let go of because it will be defining your future. If your future is a struggle because you have signed everything away, then whenever you are struggling this will always be a reminder of that relationship. For your future happiness, you need to be able to leave the baggage of the past behind. The resentment will dissipate if you have a satisfactory outcome. I can help you work out what that means for you.
4. Get organised
One thing that a Divorce forces people to do is get their ‘house in order’. There are forms to fill in, paperwork to send out, settlements to be agreed, finances laid on the table, properties to be bought and sold, and parenting arrangements to be agreed. These are all the practical tasks that you have to do to get the Divorce finalised. Delays in these tasks will delay final outcomes. These things can feel arduous in the middle of all the emotional stuff. I will get you organised to ensure a swifter result.
5. I will be your champion
I am here for you to give you confidence to make the decisions right for you. I will support you to find the ways to have the difficult conversations with ex’s, friends, family and children. I will pick you up when you are feeling down and help keep you on the right track to get the best outcome for you. I am your biggest supporter.